Do You Have Green Guilt?
This was the front page sensationalized headlines of the Red Eye today - a small off-shoot of the Chicago Tribune. If the WSJ is classical music, then the Red Eye is bubblegum pop. Anyway, I saw the front of the paper and kinda got excited, but then I read the article and was underwhelmed. It’s an interesting topic to think about, though. Do you have green guilt? What I mean, and the article means, is do you feel guilty when do you things that aren’t green? Do you obsess about being green all the time? Does it consume you?
I ask my wife, “do you have green guilt?” Her answer – “Every single day. Everytime I get in my car. Everytime I feed my children things. I don’t know the last time I didn’t feel green guilt. Ever since I read the Newman’s Own book. Everytime we purchase something that isn’t food. If the food isn’t organic, I feel guilt. Everytime I eat meat, I feel guilty. I can’t buy anything new without feeling guilt. I love Target, but I feel guilty everytime I walk in the store.”
I’d have to say that I mildly obsess. I don’t let it get to me nearly as much as my wife, though. I’m not saying I’m a martyr, but just typical male, I guess. Well – that and I swear under my breath a lot. I do really get frustrated when people do things that are so not green, but are so simple. One example is a coworker of mine. He has a recycle bin at his desk and a trash bin. He constantly throws paper into the trash and never recycles. It’s literally less than an inch from the other bin. I made a resolution to educate and not preach. I can’t say that I’ve exactly followed it – but I’m trying. Right now, I’m comfortably green. I could do a lot more and I will in time. I don’t think I’ll ever be a zealot that preaches constantly to others.
My wife and I have talked about this on many occasions and it comes back to one thing when talking about our green guilt. Most feel that knowledge is power – the old saying – sure it is – but it can also breed guilt. We know too much. We both constantly read green blogs, magazines and news. We watch green television shows. The problem boils down to the fact that we know there is a better way. We’ve seen the alternatives. We know that so much more can and should be done. I think I have to agree with her on the topic of the Big Green Purse. If you want to change the way American’s think green, you need to change how women spend their money. Sexism aside, men make most of the money in the U.S. The flip of that is that women spend 85% of the money.
Back to the article – my favorite quote is by Peter Nicholson, executive director of Foresight Design Initiative, a Chicago sustainable design nonprofit. He said,”If there are people in the world who cannot get good drinking water, and yet we can solve the engineering problem of how to heat our asses in the winter, there’s a problem there.” How true, how true. We live in such excess all the time here. I can’t say that I’m any better than anyone else. I got rid of 26 shirts this weekend – donated them to charity – the ones that don’t sell will be shredded and recycled into other things. The sad part is that I still have 50 t-shirts left, yet I can’t part with them. What if I’m in a Johnny Cash mood, can’t get rid of that one. I do love brown – and yeah – I think I do need 8 different brown t-shirts. Grey (or is it gray)? You can’t have too many grey t-shirts, right? I digress. We’re a consumer society.
What do you think? Do you have green guilt? Like I keep saying – watch The Story of Stuff and you may just start if you don’t already.
P.S. The comments from my wife were used without her prior consent. Sorry, dear.
Source: Chicago RedEye

Jason, take a look at True Green Confessions. It is a site where people can confess their green sins or nongreen thoughts. Worth a look. It makes you chuckle because it is the truth. How many of us can not live without our hot showers but get so annoyed at those that don’t recycle? (Jason-I get annoyed too.)
I do think we should think green when we are spending our green but it is hard to justify when some items are so much more expensive than nongreen items.
It is funny that you think that women spend most of the money in their household. (I guess we are not counting big boy toys?.) In my household it is just the opposite. I think there is a little of both. Nice post. Anna http://www.green-talk.com
Anna -
I got my stats from Big Green Purse – specifically here – http://www.biggreenpurse.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=14&Itemid=43
Men generally buy or influence the bigger ticket items – gadgets, computers, cars,etc. Women spend more on a daily basis – grocery shopping, clothes shopping, etc. While it does sound a bit sexist, it’s still factual to say that the women do most of the grocery shopping and cooking.
As for spending green on green, I know exactly how you feel. I’ve always been…lets just say frugal. So while I know I’m making a better decision on the “green” side of the world, its still hard to pass up that bargain! Sometimes I just have to buy it and try not to think about it – and thats not right, either. Oh well…is the lotto green?
Thanks for visiting and commenting!
-Jason
P.S. I recently bought a showerhead that is around 1.5gpm – and really like it. It doesn’t work as well for my daughter b/c the pressure drops too much by the time it gets down to her
Can’t win them all.
Don’t feel guilty about the sins of the past (50 t-shirts). Each day is a new beginning; a new day to think and be green. Keep your shirts and enjoy them, but go forth and sin no more.
Knowledge is power, but too much knowledge is overwhelming. I know better about most things, and constantly feel guilty about what I should or could be doing. You’d think I was raised Catholic or something.
I was actually thinking today about doing a post about this, but you wrote it far more eloquently than I could have. Kudos!
Katie at GardenPunks